I think you can take advantage of it. You have to be on your toes. Look good, not sloppy. Smell good, not stinky. Be nice but not in her face. Be the lighthouse in the storm. That's how you take advantage. If you are having a bad day, you want to turn to a plac of comfort right? Be that place of comfort for her. You become that place of comfort often enough, it will make an impact.
