Embracing anger - what exactly do you mean? I take it as listen, validate, let it come but don't react. Right?
Yes, don't let it rattle you. It's healthy right now for her to get it out on you. Listen to make sure she doesn't mind read, correct that.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.