I know there is this idea that the WAW expressing anger is a good thing, but I question that. Every time I hear her talk and the anger and resentment comes out louder and clearer, it just seems to me she entrenches more in her decision. When she negates any of the positive that has happened in the past 4 months (or 6 years) by saying she was just putting on a good face makes me really question what I am doing.
JKL, You are viewing this like it was two men having a disagreement. We would say what's on our minds, get POd, then work it out. Women don't operate that way. She won't tell you directly why she is upset. Ever heard this one, "Well if you don't know why I'm upset then I'm not going to tell you." Picture your wife as a pot with steam (anger) to let off. If you clamp the lid down it will blow (the bomb.) The steam has to escape and she wants you to feel it. It's OK, she is testing you to see if the changes are for real. So do a 180 and embrace her anger. I didn't believe it at first either. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
