There you go. That was the sea change in her I've been expecting. You're doing awesome. She offered you food, that's great! In particular, she offered you something she knows you like. That's affection.
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I guess it'd be too much to tell her that she looked 'smokin' hot', which she did
You're text was great, and yes, that would have been too much!
Keep doing what you're doing. Don't let this change in her knock you off your path.