here's some motivation for the 48 hour rule..... If you don't utilize it, I PROMISE you will regret. I would get heated and I would lay into H. He would fight back...later he'd be pissed, I would be upset and wonder why I couldn't just keep my mouth shut? Was I ever going to learn? And that's what the 48 hour rule is about, saving you from regret. If 48 hours later you still want to talk to him about whatever it is, then go for it, because you've thought it out, you aren't hot any more and that's always better.
