W just came to me and said she has an appt with an attorney next week. We also have an appt with MC and she has an IC appt next week.

She told me we are divorcing.

Trying to remember the advice here:

1. Don't Panic
2. Don't Despair
3. Time is on my side
4. Patience
5. GAL

I'm sure there is more I'm leaving out.

Me 38 / W 37
M 14 yrs
S 11/S8
First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA
Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA
Same House
Separate Rooms