Quote:

Man, that really MOVED me, Mules. THAT is what it's all about, isn't it???


Hey Puppy - sorry I missed this - Yes it definitely is what you are fighting for. It's hard because you get caught up in your own stuff and the WA's fog. But at the end of the day - you'll be fine. The kids are the MAIN concern. They really are. Unless they get at least one parent focused on just them - they won't be ok. And that's what all of my friends have been talking about. MY STBXW has given everyone the "kids are resilient, they'll be fine" script. That's only true if one parent - preferably the coherent one - dedicates themselves to them. Then yes, I do think the kids have a chance. In my case, I believe the kids will have trust issues for a long, long time when it comes to women.

Strength and Honor.

And a belated Happy B-day!

Mules


Last edited by mulesqb; 07/17/09 02:16 PM.
M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.