@Puppy -- why no L at this point? Because we're still trying to get sorted out via mediation. The more we can bring solved to the table, the less $ we have to spend. The guy's on retainer; he'll consult on any agreements to be signed. But I'm going to be p*ssed regardless; she's going to be p*ssed regardless. At this point we do have something in common -- we're both too cheap to want to pay some folks to watch us be p*ssed. We can do that for free smirk