So, did you commit adultery? (Hope you don't mind asking since I'm new here- just trying to figure everyone's sitch out).
Yes. I admitted to it less than a week later, asked for forgiveness, and haven't done anything since.
She indicated forgiveness, we continued along in our M. So I'm not trying to crucify her out of hypocrisy or anything. I wouldn't have even brought her A into it if she hadn't attacked me using a 'fault' based argument.
I've admitted my A to her, her family, etc. She continues to lie about her own.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."