WAW wants to get togeather?

[dday101798]

although I would enjoy some thoughts on doing some of this.. trying to GAL, how will she see? we usually dont see eachother much so how will she see when I have my own Life?

Ask, yee shall receive. WRONG approach, completely wrong. Getting a life, is FOR YOU, not her. NONE of any changes to made are for her. When you change yourself to make your life better, others, her included will take note. Your current thinking is to just put on show and hope she takes note and comes strolling back, and maybe she will. But guess what, over time you'll just slip right back into the same old rut and she'll probably leave again, read through some of the threads and take note of how many R attempts failed because the "change" of the LBS weren't genuine.

It sounds like you really may have a good chance at things. I'd hate to see anyone else blow it or go all the way through the "big D" as I have in order to get a reality check on all sides of the fence, when it may just be all too late.