this is the same ow he left me for almost 3 years ago. he was never honest with her, still isnt.
its clear she is now learning the truth and totally freaking out and holding him on a tight leash. i cannot figure out why he is with her when all he ever talked about was leaving her to come home, telling everyone. must be the mlc.
as soon as i know where we are moving, i will tell my son. psych told me u cannot tell him u are moving until u can say where u are going, unless of course he straight out says to me, are we moving. i wouldnt lie to him.
i will not tell him daddy doesnt come with us. i was told not to.
and the truth is, with us, u never know. i was so close to telling son last year and then we starting working towards getting back together.
he does not see anger in the home, he still does things with both mommy and daddy so right now he is ok.
h always worked long hours, was always out of the house before he was awake and many times home after he went to bed so the weirdness in not seeing him every day is not really there. for now.
i will know where i am moving within the next week so i will tell him that then. he does adjust easily, is extremely bright and outgoing so i know he will be ok.
im waiting for ow to lash out again, waiting for a phone call. im glad i know what to do and how to handle the calls so that she will not get away with it so easily.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09