thanks again, I guess I could post the progress as each day unfolds (she has been contacting me almost everyday. mostly through texts) but Im sure that would just be overkill on this. although I would enjoy some thoughts on doing some of this.. trying to GAL, how will she see? we usually dont see eachother much so how will she see when I have my own Life? when we have talked she gets very upset if she hears or if I even mention a friend and me are doing something out at night. I know she was checking who I texts when we still had the same phone plan. (odd since she is "done") IDK i guess I could just ramble on and on