You can teach yourself to withstand the "angry." You're much more detached now than you used to be, so after you've withstood the blow of his anger once or twice, and look down at yourself and say "Hey! I'm still standing!" -- his power over you will largely be gone.
Ask a child, what hurts more, having your parent ANGRY with you, or DISAPPOINTED in you?
When you learn to operate from "DO THE RIGHT THING," they're much less likely to be disappointed in you, and you can learn to get past the anger.
