Thanks, CT IC didn't share that info, W did. I have an IC as well. One night, W asked what I was doing with IC, and I said, working on me and trying to save our M, what are you doing? She said working on moving on after the D. When I asked about that she said after 2 sessions, the IC said she sounded like her mind was made up. In a previous post, I had written how one night we got into an argument about how we were going to split up the house and about custody. This was after 2 months of her declaring she was done trying to fix the M. I figured it was time to start deciding on how to separate at that point. We reached a heated impasse. 3 days (and 3 Rosaries) later, she texted me that she would be willing to go to Retrouvaille. This is why I want to know what she is thinking. Is she experiencing a softening of her heart? Did my not backing down scare her into re-thinking her decision to end M? Or more sinisterly, is it a way to protect herself somehow when it comes time for D? She has not yet called to register herself, but keeps telling me she will.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
