Not really sure how IC could have shared that info with you. Isn't it privileged?
She may still be confused/undecided and wants to keep her options open hence doing both things. I may be wrong (been there before).
She may also be using the IC to test herself and her resolve. Does this make sense to you?
I would have fired the IC long time ago. Professionals don't now everything. I'm sure this must be all very clinical to the IC - if X and Y happens then the result must be Z. I found that life just doesn't work that way. If it did we'd all still be in our R's!
Communication is always good. Just got to gauge the waters, think clearly why she said what she said and act on it. Preferably by putting yourself in your W's head when she said it. Either do it or don't. I found I would "dither" for hours over something I "think" she said. Still do that a little bit.
