I really thing that it was really thoughtful of your husband to realise he should expect some "mess" while all this is going. I'm afraid mine still looks like he expects me to be perfect. That might be part of the problem, he always expects me to be perfect, he expects me to deal with things better than him because I'm less impulsive, he expects me to always know how to say or do, because I tend to think before I talk, he expects me to be doing everything right, and being only human that is impossible. But he's getting the idea.. slowly:) Hugs nightshade
"Each and every one of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought and the gift of understanding. "
