For sure, no booze, and for God's sake, if you do, then turn off your phone. Remember, don't panic. Fear makes us do stupid stuff.
Couldn't agree more on these points. It also works the other way round. I had a torrent of abuse thrown at me by my W's friend. Lots of bad spelling, bad syntax, bad everything. Then I looked at the time - after 10pm and realized that 45% of the txt was written by red wine, 45% by whiskey and coke and the other 10% had some home truths. Since then myself and W's friend have made up, apologized and actually are friends. Still don't trust her and only share what I feel will help my situation and no more.
