RE: the T, I'm confused and think maybe she thought you were trying to make things work with h and her advice shifted when she realized that YOU are on your own now and want THAT to be a bit easier....we'll see I guess.
Second thing...is your h...F#@$ HIM and the horse he rode in on! Gee, he was being SO GREAT AN ALL...unbelievable gall. Unmitigated arrogance and he is a narcissist AND a bastard too...okay, I should shut up now. Sorry...
moreover- English is my mother's second language so some of her idioms are interesting but in the words of my mother, your husband "is a real jerk from jerk town"... He sure is showing his colors. You should thank him for giving you such clarity about making the right choice to dump him after all this poop... @#$%^&!!!
On that note, good night...(now where is my ambien?) Your h has made ME so mad I cannot sleep, and that's sooo NOT cool. Great, guess an anti-histamine will do... Gee, can't wait to meet him! I'll be super nice...or will I?
((( j- )))
Well, H is a sick puppy and I'm part of a very sick dynamic. And, there really does need to be a method to my approach because my kids are in the middle.
Not sure about the T. I really need to understand why she would advise me to tell the kids H is coming home. Otherwise, I think she was pretty good. She was a bit weird. How the hell do I know I've got the right one? Narcissism is a very specific disorder and I need someone who gets it.
Anyway, it pains me that I stressed anyone out with this. He's not worth it, right?
Oh, and I made pretty clear that I would like to avoid D IF there was a way for us to have a healthy R. But otherwise, I am about me and my kids.
She was kind of all over so we'll see. I'm going back on Monday.
