T It must be difficult for the mlcer their world is so crazy My xh is somewhat like yours he is in a whirlwind.. then the new man enters the picture mine doesnt know about my off again on again R but he does know the focus is no longer on him I agree with the others they thought we would wait unmoved forever maybe time stnds still for them it is sad especially for the mlcer and the kids seems we all do find our way and it is better than before I miss the old H I dont see much of that man anymore they seem to get so much worse as they travel the tunnel peace
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