I know my attorney had told me, when child support ends supposal can go up...but i noticed my xs lawyer put in our papers I could not ask for an adjustment in spousal when child support ends....humm i didnt see that and dont recall my wonderful attorney pointing it out.....and to think there i was trying to figure out his budget...if he could make it and still pay me....OH wow.....so see if u have something in your papers like that....well good he didnt hire a lawyer....he is going to have to show proof....and also if he is living with his ow SEE IF THAT MATTERS....i for some reason remember my attorney asking that not form the moral perspecitive but finances and especially if he is supporting her....but seems like if she works too...hope he going to help you son with college