Thanks for your analysis Sanderika. The thing is pre-bomb that was one of his complaints (nagging/directing too much). And out of the many complaints, that one is true. Sorry to say, but it's hereditary my mum & grandma do the same thing. A very tough habit to break. At least I'm conscience of it. I'll get over it. smile


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