What a weekend...

[AlexEN]

So are you saying there can only be one story? She will tell her story and then you can't have a different opinion. Is that because they are children and children can't understand that there are differences of opinion? Or why can't there be differences of opinion in a divorce?

I'm not saying that at all... To me, NEITHER story explains why we must get a D... And, thus we haven't helped them to make sense of the inexplicable.

Well said. Ultimately they are going to have to "make sense" of it in their own way and in their own time.

Yeah, but in the meanwhile, the way they have it make sense is that I must have done something really bad... Ouch... Must have been when I made her get rid of the first secret phone...