I keep coming and going off of this board due to time and taking the time. Back to school with three kids was frightful and I am trying to adjust to having my husband 3/4 in our world 1/4 out. He sleeps here 5 of the 7 nights and we are both in therapy. Together and alone. About the only thing that isn't back in place is him saying I love you to me. I have only said it twice since the return......
My biggest obstacles are the fact that I still can't get over what I have been thru this past year and I feel like I almost have flashbacks of the year being apart and also just prior when he was nasty.
I never imagined how hard it would be to juggle a fragile marriage back together and work and take care of my 3 sons.
Has anyone had similar problems with letting their old pattersn screw them up or wanted to punish their spouse for what they did??
