Something I had to figure out. If you can't stay sober for your W, do it for your daughters. They need a strong father that is in control of his life and can be there for them and lead them in any situation. But I am glad to see you are doing it for yourself. But if doing it for yourself ever lacks, look at your daughters. They want and need a sober dad.

I also have 2 daugters that I have every other week with me.

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...