Something else, a few months ago, my W threatened to give me problems with the kids if I took them to a catholic church. I am doing it anyways. I'd say that is Kev stepping up and doing what Kev needs to do and not looking to cater to W.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...