Ash, I've been catching up this evening.
Originally Posted By: Ashlee
In the morning H said to me "So, you aren't going to take care of my sexual needs anymore?" I responded "So, you aren't going to take care of my emotional needs anymore?"

Excellent. Good for you!
Originally Posted By: Ashlee
Don't know if I handled it correctly.

I think it was perfect. You didn't answer a victim statement and you put it right back in his lap by speaking truth.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac