Today when I picked up D, I decided to be upfront w/X and talk to her about the text she sent me about talking to D about being healthier.
When D got in the car, I said to X: "Hey, as a favor to me, can we talk about issues like the deal w/healthy eating instead of you sending me a text? It really feels like a lecture to me when you text and I'd much rather discuss things like that w/you in person or on the phone. Thanks."
X said nothing, but instead got pissed off. I called her on it, stood up and asked to be treated w/some decency, and her response was to become angry.
Again, who is the one who has an issue w/control here? I'm accused of it from her, but it has clearly been shown that she's the controlling one and always has been.
