Just a suggestion. It has helped encourage me when in despair. Go to www.rejoiceministries.org before considering dating someone else. Leave no stone unturned.
You can take it or leave it. But I found it to be very inspiring and it renewed my walk and my stand for my M regardless of the current outcome or situation. What you are facing right now is current circumstances. Circumstances can change with time.
For what it is worth, take a look. I was considering dating at one point again to. Then I had some changes occur in me from new resources.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...