You have to really TRUST your partner to let go and let them lead. You have to believe they have the best interest of the family at heart.
But isn't it also the case that you have to accept -- on the basis of comparatively little evidence -- the proposition that "He" can lead better than "She" can?
And I'm still puzzled by the silence on Womanhood. Not the "women want you to be a man" bit, but the unspoken which lurks behind every such post: "Men want Their Woman [to coin a Deida-ism] to be XYZ."
Well? Who's going to take the plunge? Who's going to define Acceptable Womanliness?
Because it seems to me that if sauce for the gander isn't also sauce for the goose, this entire meme -- Man Up -- is well-nigh pointless. So let's hear it -- what is "appropriate" or "real" Woman behavior?
And brood, if you will, upon the implications! It means that WAH is a WAH because W isn't Woman Enough for him.....
