Nothing from the T on this topic...accept that she didn't like that H had told kids when he was originally leaving that "we were arguing all the time" which I knew was a bad move but had to bite my tongue.

Our kids have to deal with the guilty, grasping at straws WASs...not sure what we can do about that.

I've on a couple of occasions slipped up by admitting that this is hard for me too or that I agree that it would be preferable to have our family together (not in those words). Dammit, I'm human.