Personally, anyone who would D over money is pretty shallow. As long as it's responsible spending of course. I think emotionally she's got something else going on.
Your youngest is only a few months old, do you think it could be post partum?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.