and to think some people have recommended that I read Deida's books and then I hear that I might sound like him UGG!!! LOL!

I pledge to everyone on this forum I won't ever be plunging my shaft of masculinity into any roses regardless if Deida personally asks me to do this or not LOL!

If Deida does in fact talk like in his books I'm sure he would be successful as a stand up comedian on the "Nasty Show", they talk like that on that show (and then some) all the time ;-)