There's never a good reason to D. All M can be saved as long as both parties recognize there was is a problem and tries to solve it. Simple as that.
It's kind of like working on a car that's not working. One person will roll up his/her sleeves to see what's the problem while the other person will look at it and just say it's not going to work any more and to get a new car without even looking under the hood.
The WAS tends to move in the path of least resistance. In this case, running away.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.