Tal, that quote for the "ow" was fantastic...I had fantasies of copying it over and sending it to CJ's xOW!!! ...It really fits so well with what he's told me of her. (I mean, she SLEPT with her FIL!!! )
But no, I won't open THAT can of worms.
Second I'm with Bill on the SIGNIFICANT difference between trying to save a marriage and trying to rip one apart!!!
Also, how about a third vote on Solaris?
CJ and I went to see this one dangerously close to Bomb #2 (when I found out about OW and was nearly suicidal)...hence the movie GRIPPED me...the whole idea of the W coming back as nothing more than an amalgam of how HE thought her to be....compelling. JMO!
...It really fits so well with what he's told me of her. (I mean, she SLEPT with her FIL!!! 
