Same as my W. She threatened to go to a L a couple of weeks ago and hasn't. But I did myself to get my facts straight.
I think deep down she's afraid and just can't get herself to pull the trigger. Your sitch and mine are very similar in that our Ws are at a crossroads. They've been threatening and doing what they want, and essentially walking all over us. But now that we aren't taking it any more and tell them to leave, they stop and get all sentimental and realize that sooner or later they are going to have to face the reality of everything they are doing.
I'm praying for you my man.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.