Well, first of all, thanks for warning me off of Solaris - I had thought about renting that one.
I really think you're in good shape other from the craziness that the OW still around brings. Hopefully, your H's POW will slowly change on this one - I think it would be hard for it not to, the longer he is rooted in rebuilding your R, but how long is anyone's guess.
Quote: But what self-respecting woman would remain in this kind of situation. I know: bad question, I am still here
Well, there's a big difference between saving your marriage and trying to prolong an affair. You should be proud you yourself and your strength; she should just be downright ashamed.
Okay, I've got to ask: what do you mean by dinosaur hunt?
Keep that PMA up, Opt - from what I see, things are going well except for that one irritating detail...
Okay, now, back to women's underwear.
Quote: My H seems to appreciate my new VS underwear (not much to wear, or for very long, though ) though he has not gotten to actually order some for me yet. It would be a cool idea.
You've got to understand how intimidating it is... there are many, many things we don't understand. We've got boxers and briefs - and in the world of "hosiery" we've got sport socks and dress socks. That's it, and neither of these are "sexy" - just imagine a guy in underwear and socks. Women have a whole other world of confusing terms - racerback, demi, underwire, lined, unlined, tangas, briefs, high-cut, low-cut, etc, etc, blah, blah, - we guys really have no idea at all about this. I'm still trying to figure out the difference between demi and full-coverage.
So, here's the million-dollar question: what do women like men to wear? What do women think is sexy? I really have no idea. I want to know.