Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

Do you know why she was crying? Was it because she doesn't want a divorce and you are talking about one? Was it because she wants a divorce and you are roping her into reconciling? Or maybe there is another reason. It makes a difference.

I don't know.

She wouldn't and didn't say.

She does not want to seem to want a divorce - she seemed to backpedal whenever I mentioned a mediator.

I told her that I had talked to a mediator, just to find out what he did and how the process worked. She asked me to tell her about it, and when described the purpose and the process - an orderly and structured division of the life, assets, child custody, etc in order to dissolve a marriage, that is the first time she really burst into tears.

So I don't think she wants a D.

She wants to be happy. She wants to be free from responsibilities. She wants to not have to deal with me.