Mother's Day Disaster

[BeingMe]

I do now feel much better and am determined to enjoy my grduation tomorrow.

Yay!

She has now taken everythig away from me.

Has she truly taken everything away from you? No-one can take your H away unless he wants to go. Being exclusively the mother of his children is no big honour ---- being the mom of your children is. So, she has taken nothing away ---- only gotten the worst end of your H (his old age) and you still are the mother of your wonderful children. You will still be a huge part of his life up until he left ---- nothing can take that away, not even him. So, take solace in the happy times, and let him (the person he is now) go.

Okay, it must be obvious now that I love quotations (and I really don't know if Lincoln was bi-polar or not --- could he have then been both happy and sad at the same time?) so here's another to think about:

"The bird of paradise alights only upon the hand that does not grasp." John Berry, Flight of White Crows

Anyway, I am really thinking about you and so glad you went out to tea, and will be going to your graduation.