Sandi2, Coach, Puppy and Gucci help!

[Bravehardt]

Puppy

Yes I would.
She has stated to me that she did not want the kids or I to leave the house back in May. I run my business from home. This was the night she told us about her mom moving in with her brother. That night was a turning point for her in talking to me by myself for the fist time in 2 months. I kind of blew it a week later, and communications closed down again.

That's the problem, her current state has so many different looks to it. I fear she may have had a mental break down of some kind. But she also show signs of MLC and WAW.

Our finances our tight, I pay all household bills, insurance, cell phone, ect. W has a couple of credit card in her name but I'll bet she has reach her limits. The W works in a retail store and makes just above minimum wage. She was part time until mid may when she realized what she had done. I'm mind reading a little here.

In may I got a little mad at her one day when she came over to the house and made herself at home like nothing had happened. She came in and made herself some coffee (no big deal) but then proceeded to do some laundry and go hang out by the pool. I approached her when she was putting clothes in the dryer and asked her what was going on. That she was the one that requested the space apart and she was crowding my space. She became very angry when I told her that she was not pulling her 50% of the deal in regards to the kids or anything else. At that point and time she had been taking them to school 3 times a week maybe less. I told her that I could hire a driver to handle that if she thought she was investing 50% with them. They kgirls had spent a few nights with her once a week. She then said that I should be paying her a $1000.00 a month spousal support. So we have had arguments about money. Which might stem from the irs issues and me not having the kind of income i had in the past. She may feel insecure that I can't support her and thats why she pulled away.
I don't have a clue. I have looked at all kinds of aspects, including what I have done to contribute to this whole mess.