Hello Kittyfish & Sandi2!

[MrBond]

Well that's pretty telling.

Sandi once told me that when I talk to my W now, talk to her in soft tones. I didn't understand what that meant until my W told me that she felt I talked down to her. I didn't understand what that meant at the time, but now I do.

Maybe when you are talking to her, you need to do the same. You do come across as still very judgemental in your posts and even though they may be right, they aren't going to be re-attracting your W back to you.

Just my 2 cents.