Also brought up that I used to call her at 4pm on a Friday to tell her I was going to happy hour as justification to why she could wait a day or 2 to tell me she made an appointment with an agent. WTF? Don't even get that point!
My guess (and now I'm trying to mind read someone else's W - you will see why in a sec.) is that she was ticked that you did not communicate to her your plans early enough, so now she feels she should be allowed not to communicate her plans to you.
The reason I suggest this is one of the things my W said to me was a similar statement about me having "made my choices" when she referred to my playing golf most Friday afternoons - would get home by 6:30-7:00. My W was pi$$ed I would take time away from the family even though she never said this bothered her, she actively encouraged me to do this, and I played on Fridays so I would not play on a weekend day (taking time away from being with family).
Just keep doign what you are doing. Stay calm and consistent. Her L is telling her exactly what I thought.
