I have talked to a laywer back in april. At that time I was still in shock. He advised me to set up a C appointment and let the W in on the date. It never happened. She had mentioned it once but when I pressed futher, she said what i can't change my mind.
My daughter has been seeing a C for a month now, she is doing fine. I have kept her under my watchful eye and with the help of family and friends she been able to keep here mind off of it a little more.
What should I do? It's month number 5. I have been to hell and back. I've seen the alien rear her ugly side and the retreat. The side that I've know for twenty years seem to be around more lately. I feel that she understasnds that I might play the card you mentioned. The last two weeks she has been calling and texting me daily(which I don't ussually repond to for hours or the next day). Most of the the communication is regarding our D 6. She has shown a little more concern for the other children also. So I am kind of in holding pattern to see what happens. I need help looking at how I can respond back to her. I still love her, thats why I'm here. She know the door is still open. And has only responded to me- What if I can't come back, The house has comsumed me. I don't like the dynamic of the house. But will not elaborate o these statements. I do need help. I been over whelmed with all the new responsibilities, the kids transportation, washing the clothes, cleaning the house, doing the bills, I've run a construction company and the W to care of everything else.
I started to document this and that but not very good.
M (46) W (45) S (17) D (14) D (6) T (20) M (17) Seperated 3/2009 . When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2
