Fire's burning out...just smoldering

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I'm okay. H and I actually had a decent conversation today about K. No arguing, no meanness, no attitude. We just talked about our daughter and we had to make some adjustments to one of his visits because OW's brother is getting married and I am going to keep her that weekend. I was pleasant and didn't fight him on anything. I gave him options and let him choose. I am going to try this, again. I am hoping that if I am kind and concede to some things, he will be kind back. It's a long shot. But, worth it. I am feeling calmer about him and I am trying to hold on to what love I still have for him as K's father. He makes it hard, though, most of the time. Hopefully, at pick up tomorrow, he will still be in a decent mood and everything will be alright.

Other than that, not much to say. Kinda quiet, right now. I'll take quiet over drama, anyday.