Bill - you are too funny! I would love my H to order me some sexy stuff...maybe someday soon he will. He liked the one I modeled the other night!

Hey Optimist - I love the idea of a picture of the three of you. Do you really want to put it in a frame that she gave him though? I would donate hers to some cause and get one that has meaning only to the three of you. Of course, if you want to you can let it slip that the photo just didn't work in her frame...

Regarding your goal of spending more time together - how is that going? I look at my sitch before my H moved out and we didn't spend more than 10 waking hours in the same room let alone together, so I may borrow that goal from you when he moves back home - how is that for a PMA?

Your strength is amazing as are the words of advice from everyone here. Can't wait to join you all.

totite "Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."