I will even go a little further. While this is something I have considered in the past that I no longer am considering, there is the Pauline Privilage option I believe that could possibly allow me to have the marriage annulled in the church and therefore be cleared in the eyes of God considering the circumstances. But that is not guaranteed and I'm not sure that I could live with that on my concious.

So I will stand and keep faith and work on me until God chooses to restore us. It could be 20 or 30 years from now. I sure hope it isn't. But it could be. That would be an extremely tough and challenging road. Thats why getting a life helps out because we just don't know how long it is going to take. One thing is for sure. If you walk away and marry someone else, you may never know what might have been.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...