Maybe you've said this already, but what reasons has H given for NOT getting rid of her?? He's got to know that he has to sooner or later... is he worried about legal implications?
Okay - I'll say this - Victoria's Secret ROCKS! I used to be one of those guys that would feel really awkward entering or buying things from that store. Well, as part of this whole process I've thrown away all my hang-ups. When things appeared to be turning around the first time (for a few days) I ordered W a bunch of stuff as part of an effort to demonstrate that I thought she was sexy.
You know what they did? They started sending me email... and catalogs... full of pictures of women in underwear... and each time I think "hmmmm... W would look good in this..." Smart people.
Well, as it turns out, the stuff I ordered was a little small, so W plans to wear it after some weight loss... well I couldn't help myself, and ordered her some more stuff just a little bigger...
SOMEDAY I'll see her in it... gives me something to look forward to... in the meantime, I just like knowing when she has it on...
Funny, how in the toilet our sex life was before... now I can't stop thinking of her in that way... hmmmmmmm...