B,

Thanks. I hear what you are sayign, but human emotion and conditioned responses makes this tough. Not to say it isn't the answer, but man it is hard.

I think when we talk tonight, I need to ask her what it would mean to hear to be a SAHM and shut up to listen.

CB


Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"