I don't mind answering. It would only be a legal D, not a spiritual D. When Jesus said the 2 become 1 flesh, let no man separate what God has joined, I don't see an earthly judge having any power to separate what God joined. We are still married in the eyes of God. Its technically like a legal separation if you are looking at it from the bible perspective.
So to answer your question of what happens if she divorces me and even remarries, I still stand for my M. According to the bible in God's eye's, she is not that other man's W. I know of success stories where the W D'd and remarried and then later D'd and came back to her true H. So I will wait.
Don't get me wrong, that will truly be grueling and painful and I have no doubt I will have a lot of despair if that happens. It will truly test my faith. But even so, I know what is biblically true.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...