Nope, Puppy, I'm not cheering her up. I told her how much she hurt me (even thought she doesn't realize it right now - she eventually will). Told her I'm not going to live in the open marriage and not planning to be a doormat. Told her that the way she's treating me needs to change cause I can't let her disrespect me anymore. It just doesn't work for me the way it is and if she can't work on her attitude - we may well go separate ways.
I'm just trying to get in her shoes. I did many things wrong as well in this relationship. We have grown apart. It's quite a complex matter - I have issues, she has issue. relations with parents, friends - complicated web of different influences.
I'm GALing and patiently waiting to see what comes out of it all. I'm quite surprised to see how 'hardened' I got in the last 2 weeks.
