I'd question anyone who told me right off the bat "I've always thought you'd be good in the sack".
Whatchakiddin me? That's like music to mine ears!
(Psssst -- it's because I'm such a good dancer.)
And regrettably, Grand Poobah and Head Mo-Fo In Charge of the Loyal Order of Heathen, First Class, I've always been able to separate the emotion-receptors from the pleasure-receptors. As has FN#1. Think Chelsea Handler without the TV show.